Who Are The Happiest Children In The World?
In 2013, Dutch children were named the happiest kids in the world by UNICEF. A few years before that, the Netherlands was named a prime example of childhood prosperity. In contrast, the U.K. and the...
View ArticleStop Saying, “Be Careful!”
“Be careful!” Kids hear that from their parents a lot. How useful is it? Not very, actually. First of all, it does not teach the child to be careful. Rather, it only teaches them to be afraid. It...
View ArticleLess Stress, More Bonding
Father and son playing in the park at the sunset time. people having fun on the field. concept of friendly family and of summer vacation. father throwing his son in the air. You’ve had a hard day at...
View ArticleHow To Stop Worrying?
Do you worry a lot and can’t seem to stop yourself? In this video, I will share with you the main reasons we worry and how we can get our worries under greater control. What is worry? We worry because...
View ArticleWhy Fathers Prioritise Work Over Family?
While nearly every father wants to be there for their child, it is easier said than done. There is no reason to doubt the sincerity of the fathers. If they seem to prioritise their work over their...
View ArticleAre You Expecting Your Child To Be Perfect?
Is your child spending seemingly endless hours playing video games, which makes you wonder if he has a video game addiction. Even if he is addicted to video games, it is useful for you to understand...
View ArticleAre You A Helicopter Parent?
Helicopters are fascinating types of aircraft. It can take off and land vertically, move in any direction, or remain stationary in the air due to its design. As helicopters hover overhead, helicopter...
View ArticleIt’s Good Enough To Be Good Enough
While every parent knows that there is no such thing as a perfect parent, we still unconsciously strive to be one. The pursuit of perfection makes them feel guilty, shameful, and inadequate. To be a...
View ArticleScaffolding Your Parenting
Think of a scaffold outside a building. Do you know what it’s there for? Scaffolding in construction serves as a temporary structure to support workers and materials during building projects....
View ArticleInspire A Love For Learning
Being a lifelong learner is essential because it fosters adaptability, enhances problem-solving skills, and promotes personal growth. In a rapidly changing world, continuous learning helps individuals...
View ArticleBe Your Child’s Emotion Coach
Daniel Goleman, who wrote the book on Emotional Intelligence, told us that to succeed in life, having a high emotional intelligence, or EQ, is as important as having a high IQ. If that is true, what...
View ArticleDADs for Life Fosters Lasting Connections Among Fathers
Find out how Justus Ong, 52 takes an active role in his child’s life and how his community of support has helped him in his fatherhood journey. Not only does Justus know how many members are in the...
View ArticleEmotion Coaching: Take Note Of Your Child’s Emotions
Let’s talk about two things that will help you become an emotion coach. The first thing an emotion coach does is to notice the child’s emotions. Before a volcano erupts, there are usually indications...
View ArticleEmotion Coaching: Listen and Validate Your Child’s Emotions
Most parents are at peace when their children are happy but struggle when they see their children feeling sad, angry, or scared. There is no real need for concern because it is natural for children to...
View ArticleOn Fire To Connect Incarcerated Fathers And Families
Bramsha Osman, 44, is a champion of the Bapa Sepanjang Hayat (DADs for Life for Malay Muslim community) movement. Read his inspiring story of how Bramsha went from being an ordinary dad, to helping...
View ArticleEmotion Coaching: Set Limits While Problem Solving
The fifth and final step of the Emotional Coaching system is to set limits while helping your child to problem-solve. Let’s say that your child has a tendency to hit others or things when he is...
View ArticleThe First Day of School: A Guide for Parents and Students
The first day of school is a significant milestone for both parents and students. It marks the beginning of a new academic year filled with opportunities for growth, learning, and new experiences....
View ArticleFather Volunteers Going Strong at CHIJ Toa Payoh
A dedicated DADs for Life volunteer at CHJI Toa Payoh, Mr Tan Boon Siong, 54, is a father of four (pictured below). Not only does he demonstrate the importance of active involvement, Boon Siong also...
View ArticleDo You Have A Close Relationship With Your Child?
Do you have a relationship with your child? It might sound like a silly question to ask, but it’s one that every parent should ask themselves. Because a relationship with your child is more than just...
View ArticleHow To Build A Relationship With Your Child
Building a strong relationship with your child is much like building a friendship with anyone else. Here are four key things a father can do to nurture that bond: 1. Spend Quality Time Together: This...
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